Intimacy with Laura

My Partner's Kinky Partner Feels Unsafe

Responses to questions submitted in comments, DMs, and here on Substack.

Apr 3 • Laura Ramadei

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March 2026

Intentionality vs Passive Avoidance

The subtle art of disclosure in nonmonogamous relationship.

Mar 20 • Laura Ramadei

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The Slippery Thing About Limerence

Limerence and NRE are dirty words these days. But let's not do away with deliciousness altogether, eh?

Mar 6 • Laura Ramadei

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February 2026

Sex as Creative Collaboration

Cultivating sustainable intimacy in relationship is an artistic endeavor.

Feb 20 • Laura Ramadei

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Q&A: Nonmonogamous Parenting

"Building a family often comes from a monogamous model, yet the wish to have a child feels very genuine and important to me."

Feb 13 • Laura Ramadei

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Safety First

Our nervous system's need for safety can inhibit repair. The remedy is mutual courage and mutual generosity.

Feb 6 • Laura Ramadei

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January 2026

Radical Curiosity: The #1 Tool for $//xual Progress

A tease ahead of my talk with the Sexual Health Alliance

Jan 23 • Laura Ramadei

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So You're Going To A Play Party

Everything I wish I knew. From the Safety Director at a prominent play party in LA.

Jan 16 • Laura Ramadei

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Q&A: My Partner Lashes Out, Then Asks Me to Hold Space

Answers to subscriber questions.

Jan 9 • Laura Ramadei

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December 2025

The Healing Power of Hockey Horn

Heated Rivalry as trauma reclamation.

Dec 31, 2025 • Laura Ramadei

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Your Neurodivergent Brain on Sex

I'm joined by Pam Shaffer, LMFT, founder of Best Self Psych and host of the podcast Neuroprovocatuers.

Dec 26, 2025 • Laura Ramadei, Best Self Psych, and NeuroProvocateurs

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22:17

From Panic to Practice

In the midst of big change, our bodies can betray us. Learn to work with your nervous system so it doesn't work against you.

Dec 19, 2025 • Laura Ramadei

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